tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1717394370495529257.post2210995683657136672..comments2023-08-19T06:22:37.637-07:00Comments on Breathing Life: This is what 55 looks like...Breathing Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02482981001235740285noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1717394370495529257.post-20888216262359968142014-10-17T00:02:23.791-07:002014-10-17T00:02:23.791-07:00I have been in that situation many times and it ne...I have been in that situation many times and it never bothered me. Nudity, male and female, is wonderful. This was about my own issues with others seeing my body naked, not about nakedness per se. It would have been a non-issue if it was a stranger in the hot-tub, but it was someone I knew on a social level. I was with two other women. One wore her bathing suit, one didn't . Then later another colleague joined us. At first he was surprised, but then shed his clothes and joined us. Breathing Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02482981001235740285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1717394370495529257.post-49312588617595410132014-10-16T21:02:07.819-07:002014-10-16T21:02:07.819-07:00I did a series of posts on body image, but as a ma...I did a series of posts on body image, but as a man talking with women about it and how we men viewed and perceived (different actions you know, not the same as some people would define them) our wives bodies. I tried to be as truthful as possible and sympathetic too. I am so pleased and proud of you in the way you were able to handle this hot tub incident. Age has a way of delivering "what the hell is it to me" moments at some point and we just go for it. I hope you felt empowered.<br /><br />Let me provoke your sense of propriety and any vestige of sexism you may have with this question though. As an educator, I think you will see the value of it being asked and discussed in a group. What if you had already been in the hot tub, clothed or otherwise, and a man had come up and done the same? How would that have then played out. We will assume he makes to sexual intimations directed at you or others.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1717394370495529257.post-70457400052713591692011-02-28T05:31:45.701-08:002011-02-28T05:31:45.701-08:00Ooops - actually - it's D'Arcy who posted ...Ooops - actually - it's D'Arcy who posted that last note from Greig's computer...Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785763007073560810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1717394370495529257.post-1918960977487886792011-02-28T05:30:27.607-08:002011-02-28T05:30:27.607-08:00I love that, Mary - Anne...I love that, Mary - Anne...Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785763007073560810noreply@blogger.com