Yopping Update #11 - 24 and done

Look what's done!

Now to decide how to display them - I might knit the Alan Dart Advent tree.  Stay tuned.

I then picked up my fisherwoman's sweater and have knit about three more inches.

This has been a sad week.  On the way home from the little island on Tuesday afternoon I received the message that my friend had died at noon.  Wednesday my husband and I drove up to his house for the wake and sat with his family for a few hours.  The funeral was yesterday.  I have so many memories of him from the eleven years we have been friends.  It poured with rain yesterday, and today looks no different.  It seems more than appropriate.

This morning I am going to visit a dear friend who is in the midst of chemo treatment.  She wants me to help her knit a shawl so I have gathered some needles and wool for the pattern she has chosen along with a  project bag.

My daughter has been sending me many pictures of my grand-daughter to help ease my sadness this week.  Here is my favourite.

I will end this week with a poem my sister sent me.  It is by Billy Collins.  I read it to my friend as I sat by his body on Wednesday.  I have read it many times over the last few days.  It helps to think of his journey this way.

Directions

You know the brick path in back of the house, 

the one you see from the kitchen window, 

the one that bends around the far end of the garden

where all the yellow primroses are?

And you know how if you leave the path 

and walk up into the woods you come

to a heap of rocks, probably pushed

down during the horrors of the Ice Age, 

and a grove of tall hemlocks, dark green now

against the light-brown fallen leaves?

And farther on, you know

the small footbridge with the broken railing

and if you go beyond that you arrive

at the bottom of that sheep's head hill?

Well, if you start climbing, and you 

might have to grab hold of a sapling

when the going gets steep, 

you will eventually come to a long stone

ridge with a border of pine trees

which is as high as you can go

and a good enough place to stop. 

The best time is late afternoon

when the sun strobes through 

the columns of trees as you are hiking up, 

and when you find an agreeable rock

to sit on, you will be able to see

the light pouring down into the woods

and breaking into the shapes and tones

of things and you will hear nothing

but a sprig of birdsong or the leafy 

falling of a cone or nut through the trees, 

and if this is your day you might even

spot a hare or feel the wing-beats of geese

driving overhead toward some destination. 

But it is hard to speak of these things

how the voices of light enter the body

and begin to recite their stories

how the earth holds us painfully against 

its breast made of humus and brambles

how we who will soon be gone regard

the entities that continue to return

greener than ever, spring water flowing

through a meadow and the shadows of clouds

passing over the hills and the ground

where we stand in the tremble of thought

taking the vast outside into ourselves. 

Still, let me know before you set out. 

Come knock on my door

and I will walk with you as far as the garden 

with one hand on your shoulder.

I will even watch after you and not turn back

to the house until you disappear

into the crowd of maple and ash, 

heading up toward the hill, 

piercing the ground with your stick.

Billy Collins